You must have been a witness to a particular seemingly incompatibles walking together, side by side with nothing standing between them as a barrier, during a walk or a picnic or at the beach. Say this lady is not at all near the description of a lady. Say this lady is at your best description of ferminity most honorably unworthy. She possess a poor height, flat ass and a flat chest. Bad sets of teeth and legs.
This descriptions must have been followed by questions like “is this reality or a dream?” At least you have seen ladies who are 10 times better than her and here is this queer looking figure of a thing finding her way into the hands of this hero-like figure of a man .I could hear you say “highly irritating, deafening, infuriating” and the likes .To crown it all, she may even posses a baritone voice having nothing to defend her ferminity.
Is there a wide margin between what you perceive about a man and what a man truly thinks? Is there anything that he may be thinking that you honestly don’t know?
Does he perceives ladies superficially or takes into cognizance her inner traits as well? After all, the men we see in the magazines and bill boards are always fused with ladies of great physical appearance with great attires to go with. We will now be looking at some things that get men’s attention and what makes him consider ‘’unworthy of attention ladies’’ sometimes rather than the perfect ones.
1. Don’t Always Expect Him to Understand Your Feelings
This may be a shocker but it is true. Men are not as sensitive as women when it comes to this. Men overlook things that women naturally don’t. Women are detailed but men are not as much detailed, women like public show and displays but men don’t. Women give attention to their looks men care less. Women can’t endure but men can. Women want all the attention but men care less. Women want the calls to come in per second but men don’t. Obviously there are disparities and as a result problems.
You must handle them with understanding. Dance to his tune most of the time though you may need sometimes to make him know your emotions but understand he is a man and don’t be too hard on him.
He may be sometimes insensitive to your attention of wanting comfort but he has you in mind all the same. He can always learn as time goes on. For him to learn sometimes, you can put up an act, this act is tagged “pretence”. Pretend that you are not just happy and watch him be at alert. I know this is what you want to see about him but there is a way to go about it and I think that is a better weapon than forcing your emotions on him.
2. Be His Centre of Attention
Now, being the centre of attraction has been grossly misunderstood by women to be all the physical entities but it is far beyond that. Now the Cinderella step sisters had the most beautiful coverings but never got the attention of the prince though their ugliness was exaggerated. The prince must have seen many other ladies of a good stature as well but what got his attention to the tatteredly dressed unkempt Cindy? Great character, value and care.
It is sometimes in movies as it is in reality. Men would cherish these attribute for a lasting respectful relationship than all the great physical covering with a sub-zero inner traits.
So being his girl who is ready for a lasting relationship, you’ve got to see these traits more important than the physical counterpart. In fact the physical part should be a compliment rather than the main focus because a great physical appearance may mean so much less that he can only think of you as a short term thing rather than his most cherished lady.
3. Be the Relaxed Type
He wants to see the relaxed and not the all too serious you. Your being too serious will not bring out the ideal man you want in him.
He wants to make a move or initiate a beautiful and pleasurable plan and the serious you quickly comes to mind and he is de-activated. It will do you a lot of good to bring your relaxed self to the scene to your advantage and his.
Relaxation makes the most pleasurable moment and brings out the best in a relationship. It also forestalls trust. Stop trying to force yourself on him while ignoring the real things such as this that can bring out the naturally ideal man that he is, thereby making your relationship a happy one.
4. Value Yourself and Have a Good Self Image
In everything we do, there is always a giving before a taking. You must realize that giving yourself value and self worth first is required before you get them back from your man. So guard jealously your value and self esteem. The duo are the charmers magic before her man.
Don’t make obvious what truly is not obvious to him else you lose him. Don’t look down on yourself under any circumstance.
Even when you obviously have some short comings, stand confident and be self- reliant. Don’t do an escapism adventure into a relationship. By this I mean don’t have a relationship as an cover-up for your short comings or a booster for you else you bore your man and make the relationship short lived.
These are just some of the many other secrets you are about to learn that you will need to consider for an healthy relationship. The other secrets will make for more complete secrets for making your relationship go on all high , those other things that you need to know aside the above listed that will help secure you the man of your dreams. They have carefully been put together for the finest of the subject “Capture His Heart and Make Him Love You Forever”.
These remaining secrets are those you have been unconsciously waiting for, they are a big revealer, an eye opener, bigger secrets that will take your relationship to the next level and make you a sort after lady that instead of worrying about getting your man’s attention, he is the one thinking of what else to do among all he has already done to please you.
These remaining secrets are what you will need to see and immediately lose your low self worth and esteem that you will never believe you ever had it in the first place. It will boost your value and make him always put you in remembrance. You will now see why your relationships has been failing and what you need to do to start avoiding a repeat of past failures, capture his heart and make him love you forever.
Note: Capture his heart and make him love you forever is a team work between two dating & relationship expert, Michael Fiore and Claire Casey. It is made available in digital format with video lessons and wonderful follow up support to ensure that you learn the skill to capture man’s heart and make him love you forever.